Adults can marry without their parents’ consent. Here is what the law says, how notices and registration work, and what to do if you face threats.
One of the most common questions we hear is: "Can we get married if our parents don't agree?" For adults, the short answer is yes.
The legal position
If the groom is at least 21 and the bride at least 18, and the other conditions of the law are met, the consent of parents is not required for a valid marriage. The Supreme Court has said this clearly and repeatedly — the right to choose a partner is part of the right to life and personal liberty under Article 21 of the Constitution.
Will parents find out?
Possibly, depending on the route:
- Under the Special Marriage Act, the notice of intended marriage is published by the Marriage Officer, and a copy is sent to the district of a partner's permanent residence if that is elsewhere.
- Under Gujarat's 2026 registration rules, registration of a marriage involves details of parents and notice to them.
We explain exactly what will be published or sent before you file, so that you can plan for your safety.
If parents object
An objection under the Special Marriage Act can succeed only on legal grounds — for example that a partner is under age or already married. "We do not approve" is not a legal ground. If an objection is filed, the Marriage Officer inquires into it, and we represent you.
If you feel unsafe
- Call 112 in an emergency.
- Give a written representation to the police asking for protection.
- File a protection petition in the Gujarat High Court. Read more about protection for couples.
Frequently asked questions
Can parents file a police case to stop our marriage?
Parents sometimes file missing-person or kidnapping complaints. If you are both adults and married or marrying of your own free will, you can state this before the police or a magistrate. Keep age proof with you and talk to an advocate quickly.